Sex and Relationships

He doesn't want to have sex with me

I am overweight and my boyfriend can go for weeks without wanting sex with me. I am finding this very stressful. I have spoke to him about it but he says Im overreacting. He says he doesnt feel very sexual at the moment. But recently I have caught him watching porn while masturbating. Could you please tell me from a mans point of view if I am overreacting.

I wouldn't say you are overreacting but you have to ask yourself why has he turned to porn. Is it because you are overweight and he doesn't find you attractive anymore? Or is he simply bored with your sex life and is using porn because it's different.

You have to realise that men tend to get bored of things quite easily - including sex. So you need to try different things to spice up your sex life. You could even try watching porn together!