Sex and Relationships

Is he genuine?

So I seem to have pulled a guy with a reputation of being a bit of a player.

I keep saying no, but his persistence and constant references to the fact that I'm different and he genuinely wants to date me seems to be wearing me down a bit. I found myself half considering it the other day.

Is he enjoying the thrill of the chase and will lose interest once he gets his wicked way, or is it possible he could he really have fallen for me?

Well, difficult to say. Many blokes (and girls) like the chase and the flirting. Some end up in relationships, others in one-night stands.

Why not go out on a couple of dates with him and get to know him better? There's no harm in just dating - you're not obliged to let him have his 'wicked way' (although being a bloke, that's probably uppermost on his mind).

After a few dates, he'll either still be keen to see you, or will have become bored with not getting his way and gone off chasing new conquests.

Only time will tell...