Sex and Relationships

Should I meet up with my cybersex partner?

I'm a single 32 yr old young woman with 2 school age children. I was feeling a bit lonely and enjoyed chatting to people in chat rooms. Sometimes I find myself enjoying cyber sex. A French guy especially keeps ringing me from France and we have the most wonderful phone sex. However, he wants more from me - pictures, my normal phone, and wants to meet up. He says he's a bit of an exhibitionist and enjoys nudist beaches and group sex. I'm going to France in the summer with kids and I feel very tempted to meet him. Is it safe? Can someone really find a long term relationship in a chat room?

People can and do find long term partners online. However, I wouldn't risk exposing my children to somebody I'd never met before. One thing you have to realise is that people often lie on the Internet, so he could be a lot older than he says he is - or he might even be married.

You also have to ask yourself whether this man is really looking for a long-term relationship when he openly admits to enjoying group sex.

By all means arrange to meet him, but meet him in a very public place and preferably without your children.