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How do I ask her out?

I really like this girl and I want to ask her out but I am scared of what she will say. What do I do.

Unfortunately, there's no easy way to get over this one. We all feel nervous when we want to do something but don't know what the outcome will be. You've got to face it, or you'll forever be wondering what she would have said, and running through the scenarios in your head.

Perhaps you could find out what she likes doing. If she likes going to the cinema, ask her. If you think she'd like to go for a walk, ask her to do that. The worst thing you can do is say: "would you like to come out with me?" and then have no idea what to do or where to go. Don't put any pressure on her, just ask her in a nice and friendly, but casual way.

And if she says "No". Well, don't think it's because she doesn't like you. She may have lots of other reasons. She may already have a boyfriend, or doesn't even want one. Don't take it to heart - find someone else.

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