Sex and Relationships

I just want to cuddle up next to her...

I have been seeing a girl for a few weeks now and I really want to be with her.

We made an agreement that we would just see how it goes, and now I am falling in love with her. I'm scared to tell her this in case she runs a mile but on the other hand she has said that she really likes me.

What can I do to let her know my feelings without pushing her away all together? We normally spend a lot of time at my house just lazing around.

I just want to cuddle up next to her and kiss her but I just get really shy. How can I overcome this and learn to express my feelings to her?

Any help you could give me would be much appreciated.

he start of a relationship is always a nervous yet exciting time, so it's quite understandable that you are terrified by the fact that if you say too much you might be rejected and left broken hearted.

But that aside you can't deny your feelings forever and the fact she comes around to see you a lot obviously means something, as she has admitted to liking you. You have to remember there is taking things slow and coming to a complete and utter stand still which in itself can be counter-productive.

You never know she might get bored of waiting for you to ask her out/kiss her that she goes to look for affection else where. Believe me, the regret of never really finding out how they felt can be just as painful and tortuous as rejection.

My advice to you is take the bull by the horns, get out of your house and take this girl on a proper romantic date.

From what you have told me so far you know her quite well by now so you should know what her likes and dislikes are. Take her out to dinner and treat her like a princess. Don't settle for the cinema - because you can't talk in a cinema.

Once out on your date offer compliments and praise her on her appearance, open doors for her and act like the complete gentleman. Once you feel comfortable and you are sure your have got her full attention tell her how you feel.

Tell her you have fancied her from afar for ages and that you like her a lot (but I would stay away from mentioning the 'love' word for the time being). This should prompt her into telling you how she feels and hopefully you should be in each others arms by the end of the night for another happy ending.