Sex and Relationships

I really fancy her, but she's engaged

I really like a woman but she's engaged. When we first met two years ago there seemed to be a spark but I bottled out of asking her out.

About six months later I bumped into her and she said she was seeing someone, strangely he has the same name as me. I put it down to coincidence.

Yesterday I bumped into her at a training session in the gym and she looked fantastic. She seemed flirty and the feelings came flooding back. What do you think I should do?

First and foremost you have to remember that she's engaged. Many 'attached' women flirt quite openly with other men in order to bolster their ego or to make their partner jealous. Either way, this is simply attention seeking.

They feel that, because they already have a boyfriend/fiancé/husband that they're safe and you will taken their flirting as harmless.

Our advice would be to enjoy flirting with her, but take it for what it should be - a bit of harmless fun!