Sex and Relationships

I'm awkward around my new partner

I just managed to get out of a hopeless marriage about 6 months ago, now I have managed to meet a lovely woman, who is everything I have ever looked for.

The problem is I cant bring myself to make a move at all, it seems easy enough to text everything, but i just don't seem to know the right moment.

I have been out of the dating scene for some time and I dont know if I'm nervous or just scared of losing her. I know she feels the same way. What is wrong with me?

We have kissed and we still meet up, it all just seems very awkward. I know this sounds corny, but I would love to just sleep with her to get rid of the tension and get on with a proper relationship.

The way you are feeling is perfectly normal - it's natural to be nervous and awkward around someone you've just met and like a lot - especially if you haven't dated anyone for a while.

My advice to you is not to rush a sexual relationship, even though you think it would "ease the tension". Your first sexual experience together should be a wonderful thing and certainly shouldn't be rushed. The more you see your new girlfriend the more relaxed you will become and eventually sex will be a natural progression in your relationship.

If you still feel nervous around her while not try some more unusual days out with her, in a less formal setting. Try something like ice skating, hill walking or an adventure centre where you will need to develop trust through the activities, and where your relationship isn't the central focus. Once you developed a stronger bond, then it should become easier to talk to her.

It seems you are trying to move to fast - take it easy enjoy each others company and let things develop at their own pace.

Good luck!