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Why am I having trouble getting a girlfriend?

I'm 35 and currently single.

I'd love to find myself a girlfriend from 27 to 45 ish, why am I having trouble getting one?

To find attractive and single women you have to actively seek them out. They're not going to come to you just because you're single. That is unless you wear a sign around your neck saying "Single man looking for some TLC"? Thought not!

In this day and age there are loads of ways to meet sexy, pretty, funny, intelligent women.

You can try the conventional way of hanging around in your local pub, bar or nightclub or you can go for the more discreet approach and sign up for dating services and websites.

But before you do any of these I would suggest you sit down and do the following.

Make a realistic list of the type of woman you want to get to know. Then write a list of your bad and good points. For example people tell me I have a nice bum (good) but they also tell I'm always coming up with crap chat up lines (bad).

Once you have done this you can focus on what you're good at and what areas might need a bit of work. Maybe you are just lacking in a bit of confidence or maybe you just need to rethink your wardrobe.

All I know is that if you are feeling sexy and happy with yourself then you will exude that sexiness and happiest and this will make you ultimately more appealing.

Good luck.

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