"The great secret of a successful marriage is to treat all disasters as incidents and none of the incidents as disasters."
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."Harold Nicolson on Mignon McLaughlin
"By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher."Harold Nicolson on Socrates
"It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages."Harold Nicolson on Friedrich Nietzsche
"How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being."Harold Nicolson on Oscar Wilde
"Don't marry the person you think you can live with marry only the individual you think you can't live without."Harold Nicolson on James C. Dobson